Hey guys, I just want to say thanks for reading Seenstr. I started this blog just a couple weeks ago, and I’m really enthusiastic about the feedback I’ve received. The number of comments has already exceeded the number of posts I’ve made, which is great. I really would love for this site to be as interactive as possible, and I just want to let you know a couple things to make sure I can get here and post as much of the information in my head as possible.
- Leave comments. When I get comments, questions, etc, I know people are reading, and pretty much every time I see a comment come in, I get an idea for a new post, so definitely keep ‘em coming.
- Tell your friends about the site! The more people I see reading, the more I’m going to write. It’s definitely true. The other day, I noticed over a thousand people read my post on negging, so I set aside the day and wrote 3 more posts that day. Nothing makes me want to write like knowing people are reading, so definitely spread the word about seenstr.com
- I’m hard at work on my first two ebooks, but my main focus is still the site. Also, I’d like to get as much feedback from you guys about what you want to see in those ebooks. The first one I’ll be releasing is called Seenstr’s Guide to Threesomes, in which I’m sharing everything I know about how to arrange a threesome, how to have one, and how to survive the aftermath. If you have anything you’d want to see in that ebook, let me know. It’s already up to about 100 pages, but I’d like to keep it as focused on what you guys want to read as possible.
So let’s use this post as a feedback gathering spot. Let me know what you’d like to see in the threesomes ebook, and let me know what other ebooks you’d like me to write. Remember, I’m not just a PUA. I have a lot of information to share on all aspects of human interaction and human nature, so feel free to throw out any old question you can think of. Also, I know a lot of women are reading this blog. Ladies, let me know what you’d like to know about, as well.
Also let me know what you’d like me to write about in the next couple weeks. Help me build a topic list, and I’ll tear through it.
So… let me have it. Comment away, folks!
9 responses so far ↓
1 John // Aug 23, 2007 at 12:08 pm
Ok i hope you comment back
situation number 1
theres this girl and i like her. I for sure know she likes me and she knows i like her. Forsome reason it got into liek this little mind game with me and her like a push and pull shit. Like she got mad at me the other day at a game and shes liek you guys are annoying me (my friend and I) then im like fine then i get up and leave hoping she would apologize and make me sit back but no…
situation number 2
theres this girl i really like. Hot cheerleader me and her were really good friends in 9th grade but then over the summer i stopped talkign to her. Now im trying so hard to talk to her but i don’t ever know what to say to her its so awkard.
2 John // Aug 23, 2007 at 12:12 pm
also yes i read your keepign up conversation what i got out of it was don’t ask questions
last time i talked to situation #2 it was me and her only at her locker and i say hey shes like hey im like so cheerleading seems fun i see you guys doing your cheers shes like Yeah. She didn;t say anything after gosh >
3 John // Aug 23, 2007 at 12:13 pm
then i was like in my head panicing like leave before it gets worst then im liek your making me bored and she laughs and smiles and leaves. Me and her like really good friends too she would ask me for advice etc. now since i don;t have any classes with her its like going all downhill
4 Byron // Aug 23, 2007 at 1:38 pm
i have a suggestion: talk about starting a conversation with a womam. like what should men ware, how should we stand, and what line do you think is best to use to start a conversation with. i could really use the last one.
5 seenstr // Aug 23, 2007 at 1:45 pm
Hey John here’s a harsh criticism to get things going: you need to learn a bit of the conversational skill if you want this to work.
I know this is just a comment on a blog post, but it tells a lot about how you converse with people. Your comment is rambling, contains a lot of errors… etc. So my question is, do you do this in conversation as well? If so, stop.
A lot of guys think a girl likes it when you talk in a, err, how should I put this, trashy manner. They don’t. Women really respond to a guy who knows how to talk — properly.
If you watch the Pickup Artist on VH1, study Alvaro (aka Kosmo) carefully. Notice how much trashy ghetto slang he uses. This is a curse that he needs to break. You can’t go up to a beautiful woman and lead with “yo baby, wazzup?” That might work on a hag, but a beautiful, intelligent and cultured woman is going to expect more. Make a conscious effort to NOT learn how to talk from Mtv, but from the discovery channel, the national geographic channel, the history channel… something with a higher level of intelligence. The bonus is, you’ll learn some interesting stuff that you can bring up in your conversations. Nothing is more interesting to a woman that a guy who KNOWS SOME STUFF.
Also, good job on not asking questions. Seriously, good first step. But if you apply that technique and she still just stares at you, what did you do next? Did you just stare back and then walk away? Why? Why didn’t you make another statement?
Just keep talking, but don’t ask questions. Your statement “so cheerleading seems fun, I see you guys doing your cheers” is a dud. She responded the best she could. What did you follow up with? Anything?
Remember, always keep it going. When she says “yeah”, say “I practice Karate (or whatever you do), probably as much as you guys do cheerleading. They’re both really active sports. I can see a lot of similarities between the two.”
See? Keeping it going. She’ll have a question now:
“oh really? how long have you done karate?”
“About 5 years. I compete every once in a while”
“Really? Have you ever won?”
etc.
Good luck.
6 seenstr // Aug 23, 2007 at 1:47 pm
Byron, good suggestion. I’ll work up a quick post on opening later this evening.
7 John // Aug 23, 2007 at 3:19 pm
Thanks man I’ll try to work on my grammer. I don’t know about next time though. It seems like it will be really hard just striking up a conversation. I will try to make more statements now. Oh yeah i asked you already do you have any type of instant messenger like for example AIM?
8 PrelKikam // Aug 26, 2007 at 7:56 pm
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9 Byron // Aug 28, 2007 at 5:36 pm
i was wondering, i would like to practice on what kind of line i would use to start a conversation with beautiful women, but i have no one to discuss this with. should i post here what i think i can say and wait for feedback, or do you have a email address and we can discuss thin in private. its kinda embarressing.
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