Seenstr - Hacking Human Nature

I’m putting together two eBooks right now, Seenstr’s Guide to Situational Negging and Seenstr’s Guide to Threesomes.  In each I’ve led with my theory of the stink of desperation.

When you have gone a long time without sexual contact, you begin to acquire the stink. The longer you go, the more you stink.  If you go long enough, you will positively reek of it.

Why do I call it the stink?  Because to an outsider watching someone with the stink interact with a member of the opposite sex, it looks as if an odor is driving the person away.  The closer you get, the farther away they move.

Of course, it isn’t an actual odor.  In fact, it has to do with intuition.  There is no such thing as intuition, at least as you know of it.  What intuition is, really, is a system by which our subconscious mind accumulates, aggregates and analyzes tiny, seemingly insignificant signals given off by someone in close proximity.  We aren’t conscious of what is happening, but our brains have an algorithm that they use to  “crunch” this data and make a quick determination.

So a person may not be giving off any signs indicating who or what they really are — at least none you can identify consciously — and yet we get a sense about them, a feeling that something isn’t quite right.

And it works quite like an odor.  We “smell” it, in a sense.  Sometimes it smells fragrant, nice.  You want to get closer to it and smell it some more.  Sometimes it smells like smoke, instills fear or suspicion, and drives you away.  Sometimes it smells like shit, and makes you ill.

If you have the stink of desperation on you, the best and fastest way to get it off of you is to make yourself un-desperate.  If you stink of sexual desperation, the quickest way to remedy that is to have sex.

Remember that one of the purposes of the neg is to indicate that you are not desperate to hook up with a woman.  You disqualify her and/or yourself from a romantic relationship.  But the key idea is indicating that you don’t really need to sleep with the woman, because hey, you’ve got options.  Similarly, removing the stink of desperation removes those indicators that you subconsciously emit, and which she subconsciously interprets, which indicate that you, in fact, have no options.  They indicate your desperation whether you like it or not.

I have advised people with a bad case of the stink to momentarily lower their standards.  Sex drive, for men, is like hunger.  The longer you go without food, the more desperate you are for anything.  While a nice steak dinner is great when you had a decent lunch earlier in the day, a horse’s ass would be just fine if you haven’t eaten in weeks.  The same applies to sex.  If you stink, go get something to tide you over.  Maybe not a horse’s ass, but at least get something that will prevent you from diving on a horse’s ass if you wait too long.

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